Since May 5, 1868—some would argue unofficially before then—the United States has set aside Memorial Day as a time to honor its nation's fallen military personnel who sacrificed their lives for their country. No one can be more worthy of a national tribute for their bravery in the face of danger and for their role in changing the world.
It has surely crossed most of our minds that Memorial Day means to most Americans just a day off from work, a downtown parade, a barbecue, and a lot of traffic. I try to avoid those sentiments by memorializing people who were once in my orbit and changed my world. I can think of my parents, father-in-law, grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, friends, teachers, bosses, coworkers, and artists who are no longer here in the flesh. I make a point of talking about them to others, to let them know how these people influenced and inspired me with their courage, wisdom, insights, humor, and vision. I shall always remember them for their role in making not only my world, but our world, a better place. These champions, these kings and queens, encourage me to be a better human being and to do my share in paying forward whatever I can.
When I go to that Memorial Day parade or barbecue, I will remember those spirits who still lead me to the clearing. There are so many to remember and to be grateful for.
